I experienced that more in my youth. One on one the tops tended to be rougher than in a group. Homophobic men especially like to see a fag suffer while using him for their sexual satisfaction.
Same here bro. But I found these Tops weren’t too demanding. They took it easy on the fag btm. When I submit to an Alpha man, I want him to use me. Make me struggle taking his rock hard cock forcing into my throat or pounding my asshole. I want to be used.