Some couples I’ve been with have a wife whose thing is to act out being the victim and basically being a brat. I don’t criticize anyone if acting in a certain way gets them off, provided it isn’t negatively impacting the dynamic of the sex session. And a few women want to be put in their place, but you need to carefully assess the situation before doing so.
Seeing my wedding ring on my wifes hand while it was wrapped around another mans cock was always a huge turn on for me. I still have a few pictures of that. Such great memories.